Ok, big question on my mind....Is it best to just fall in love or better to move sloooowwwwllllyyyyy....
You hear of these amazing relationships that almost start as love at first sight. They sound amazing! Both parties seem equally interested, crazy about each other! It makes me wonder...
It has been years since I have felt that equal connection with someone. With my ex, I had it to a point but you could always feel a sense of holding back between the two of us. I want that crazy, uninhibited, anywhere type of love. No awkwardness.
On the other hand, is that smart? Is that safe to want or do? I'm not so sure. How do you know when its safe to just dive right in and throw caution to the wind? My opinion, you don't!
Love is a risk no matter who you are or who you choose to be with. You, are the only person who can decide for yourself if it is worth the risk, or not.
I have to fight the urge to just let myself go and follow only my heart. I now feel that its more then important, but essential, to weigh out everything. In doing so their also has to be an equal amount of free falling. You cannot let yourself be completely taken in by the emotion and excitement, you MUST use your brain.
In saying all of this, i still have questions. To be continued ......
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